Pick what you need. It opens a short list of New York offices and national lines to start with. Choose another state.
Free, private support any hour of the day.
Text START to 88788
National Domestic Violence Hotline
An advocate can help you think through safety, shelter and next steps, whether or not you are ready to leave.
Next step: Call, text or chat. You do not have to give your name.
Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE
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Free support for anyone in emotional distress or crisis, any hour.
988 Lifeline
You do not have to be thinking about suicide to call.
Next step: Call or text 988.
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Crisis counselors answer any hour.
Childhelp
Call if you are worried about a child, or if you are afraid you might hurt yours.
Next step: Call and say what is going on.
Phone: 1-800-4-A-CHILD
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New York has a domestic violence coalition that knows the local shelters and programs.
National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV)
Shelter addresses are kept private for safety, so this site never lists them.
Next step: Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline any hour, or open the list and choose your state's coalition.
Phone: National Domestic Violence Hotline
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SNAP helps households with low income buy groceries.
New York SNAP agency, as listed by the U.S. Department of Agriculture
This page links to New York's SNAP website and phone number and tells you how to apply.
Next step: Open the New York entry, then apply online or call the number it lists.
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Healthy foods, nutrition advice and breastfeeding support at no cost for women who are pregnant, recently pregnant or breastfeeding, and for babies and children under 5.
New York WIC agency, through the U.S. Department of Agriculture
Next step: On the apply page, choose New York (or your Tribe) from the list. Then call or apply online with a WIC agency near you.
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LIHEAP can help pay a share of heating and cooling bills.
Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP)
Each state runs its own program. Applying never costs a fee.
Next step: Call the National Energy Assistance Referral line, weekdays 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Eastern, and give your city, county and New York.
Phone: NEAR hotline
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A free line that connects you to local help with housing, food, utilities, child care and more.
211, United Way and partners
Next step: Dial 211, or search by ZIP code at 211.org. Say what you need and your county.
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Medicaid and the Children's Health Insurance Program (CHIP) cover many children in families with low or moderate income.
Insure Kids Now, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
New York sets its own rules.
Next step: Open the coverage page, choose New York, and follow the steps to apply.
Phone: 1-877-KIDS-NOW
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Health centers charge on a sliding fee scale, so you can get care even if you are uninsured or cannot pay.
HRSA health centers, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
Next step: Search by ZIP code, call the center, and ask whether it provides prenatal care and what the sliding fee would be. Or call 1-800-311-BABY to find your area health department.
Phone: 1-800-311-BABY
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The national directory lists member diaper banks by state and city.
National Diaper Bank Network member banks
Next step: Find New York in the directory and contact the bank nearest you to ask how to sign up. If none is close, dial 211 and ask about diaper help.
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Free early intervention for children under 3 who are behind or have a disability.
New York early intervention program (birth to age 3)
You can call yourself. You do not need a doctor's note.
Next step: Call and ask for a free evaluation. If your child is 3 or older, call your public school district instead.
New York has several regional parent centers that help families of children with any disability with school plans, meetings and your rights.
The federally funded disability rights agency for your state.
The New York page gathers links for finding licensed child care, help paying for it, child support, health coverage and more.
ChildCare.gov, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
Next step: Open the New York page and use its link to find child care near you.
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Free learning and development for children from birth to age 5 in eligible families.
Office of Head Start, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
All programs welcome children with disabilities.
Next step: Enter your city or ZIP code in the locator, then call the program listed and ask how to enroll.
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Legal aid offices help people with low income with custody, divorce, housing and benefits at no cost.
Free, private support for anyone who is pregnant or has had a baby and feels sad, anxious or overwhelmed.
Health Resources and Services Administration (HRSA)
Counselors answer any hour, in English and Spanish.
Next step: Call or text. You do not have to be in a crisis to reach out.
Phone: 1-833-TLC-MAMA
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PSI has Support Coordinators in every US state who can talk with you about postpartum depression, anxiety and other struggles around pregnancy and birth, and point you to local help.
Postpartum Support International (PSI)
Next step: Call the HelpLine or open the PSI site and choose United States to find help in your area. This is not an emergency line. If you are in crisis, call or text 988.
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Free, confidential emotional support for parents and caregivers when parenting feels like too much.
Parents Anonymous
Trained specialists answer by call, text or live chat any hour.
Next step: Call, text or chat. You do not have to be in a crisis.
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